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When couples come from different cultural backgrounds, they may both want to express their own cherished traditions in their wedding ceremony and reception. Combining traditions and adding culturally-related touches can create a beautiful, memorable day that will warm everyone’s hearts.
Decide on Traditions
Many wedding traditions are universal or have been adopted by most cultures around the world, but some are unique. This is especially true when the couple has two different religious backgrounds they wish to include. Many couples decide to hold two wedding ceremonies, either separately or sequentially, to ensure all religious requirements are met.
In other cases, wedding traditions are combined. For example, a Christian-Jewish wedding may include a chuppah and glass-breaking ceremony, as well as the recitation of the Lord’s Prayer. Check with a clergy member to make sure your choices don’t conflict or cause offense.
Plan Music with Your DJ
While the ceremony may have some restrictions, you can go full-out in expressing cultural traditions at your reception, especially when it comes to music. You may have some favorite songs to include, such as Latin music or songs from Bollywood. You should also consult with your professional DJ who can advise you on creating a song list.
You might also consider music that lends itself to traditional cultural dances. You may choose the hora if you are Jewish, the salsa if Cuban, or the polka if Polish. Many guests who don’t share either of your cultural backgrounds might enjoy trying the dances.
Get Creative with the Food
One of the most appreciated ways of sharing one’s culture is through food. Your guests will love sampling traditional cultural dishes and learning about their importance. Talk to your caterer about including some of them on your menu.
Some cultures have specific wedding traditions involving food. In Brazil, for example, wedding cookies called bem casados (“well married”) are served. A Middle Eastern wedding may serve hummus, falafel, or baklava. Check with your grandparents to see what types of foods might be culturally traditional for you.
Multicultural weddings can be exciting to plan–and you may learn more about your own culture and your future spouse’s culture in the process. As you combine your lives on your wedding day, you will find joy in joining together your cultural backgrounds.
Planning a multicultural wedding in the New Jersey area? Consult the experienced DJs at Mystical Entertainment Group!
